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*MAFIA* => Flame => Topic started by: *MAFIA* Meeester on April 30, 2012, 08:50:05 PM
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I had no intention of telling any of you this, but I am so god damned pissed tonight that I need somewhere to vent to. Living with MG couldn't have been this bad. I do feel much better after typing this though.
Starting back ~12 months ago, my parents' marriage had obviously deteriorated; it had been rocky for the past 5 years, but these past 12 months have been pretty fucking bad. My dad had asked me for advice on what I would do in his situation. I was still giving my mom the benefit of the doubt and told my dad to try marriage counseling. He didn't take my advice, now I see why, and just waited for the inevitable.
My parents divorced in January, but my mom had been so shitfaced every god damned day from August to December that I never even fucking noticed her around the house other than as a slob. My dad had told my mom during the summer while she was visiting her father up in Virginia to just stay at his home for the entire summer and to not come back until the school year started back up. Even when I still held some sort of respect for my mother, I knew that was a harsh call to make. When she came back in August, my dad moved out to stay at my sister's fiance's second unused home. While he lived there, my mom lived alone with my little sister. My mother didn't cook a single god damned meal for my sister, didn't clean up the house for shit, shouted drunkenly almost every mother fucking night at my sister, and made my sister cry so many god damned times that I have wanted to smack my mom's fat face into the wall on several occasions.
Note: I never ONCE felt like my dad had abandoned me or my sister during this time. He needed the time away to calm down. He had been stressed and depressed as hell for the past few months. I was too busy despising my mom.
Then came thanksgiving. The three of us had thanksgiving together while my dad was up in Virginia with his brothers. After my sister finished cooking we sat down to eat. The tension and awkwardness was bulletproof. My mom recognized this and left in a fit. I went for a drive to calm myself and call my dad to tell him. Now I see this was a horrible fucking idea. I returned to find my mom yelling at my sister because my mom thought my sister had called my dad to tell him what happened. I flipped my shit. I shouted at my mom for a good half hour until she shut the fuck up. Every one left to their own room and didn't talk to each other for a good 3 days. After that it was the usual walking on eggshells until Christmas when we had another awkward session without drama.
Now, in January, my mom had been invited to my older sister's wedding this May. My mom is already against the wedding but insists on acting like shes fine with it. She send these bullshit texts to my older sister making demands to not have the wedding until the divorce is finalized and other bullshit. My sister considered uninviting her, but decided against it.
Now I haven't spoken to my mom in 2 months, but that hasn't stopped her from sending me drunken texts every night. My mom continues to be passive aggressive, or threaten to use legal bullshit (that doesn't exist) to get custody of my younger sister, or guilt trip us, or fucking spy on us. She won't even let us talk this out at least once as a group. We, my dad and two sister and I, want to talk to her soon and not have our first meeting in two months to be at my older sister's wedding because that obviously wont end well.
Her latest guilt trip involved her father's recent death 2 weeks ago. When he died, we all wanted to attend his funeral, but my mom would not give us a straight answer. It was Tuesday, no it was moved to Friday, now it was actually on Wednesday. Because of this, only she had gone to the funeral. She then called my dad and tried to guilt trip him by telling him that if my sisters or I had shown up, then we would have been entitled to a $100,000 inheritance, EACH. Now this is total bullshit because we all knew my grandfather was in a shitton of debt and his farm wasn't worth shit anymore. One of my cousins was there who would have been entitled to the same inheritance, yet she had not recived anything, confirming our suspicion of my mom bullshitting us.
SO that is what I have been dealing with for the past year or so.
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Wow, sorry to hear all the drama and bullshit you and your sisters are going through. I am sure it is tough and we are here for you if you news us. Have a blessed day and remember that the sun will come out tomorrow!
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I've been reading, a lot, lately to deal with stress. Works pretty well.
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Sounds like a rough situation. I'd still choose that over living with Mean Green.
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Sounds a tad like my mother, just that I have a body of ocean between us. Don't know how you deal with living with her; I could never do that. Props to you for not killing her.
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Sometimes married people simply fall out of love and can't bear to live with each other. But they're tied to responsibiliti es. Their older parents and children have expectations of them that tortures them while they're not happy but stuck. You may consider your dad as a voice of reason but this will drive your mom off, and to drink. You need to stop siding against your mom, sit down and say what you've said to us, to just her, and the world could change for you bro.
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You need to stop siding against your mom, sit down and say what you've said to us, to just her, and the world could change for you bro.
She has been heavily drinking for the past 2 years. When any of us have tried to talk to her, she demands sympathy with what she says/claims.
This is her exact routine from May to December: Wake up at 4am, get ready for work, work until 6pm at elementary school, come home, grab a few natural lites (or sometimes a pint of 50/50 vodka and orange soda), then stew in her own anger for a few hours drunk.
There is no way in hell any of us were about to talk to that. Once she moved out for good, she started to play mind games or send everyone on a guilt trip for her leaving.
None of us are going to deal with her shit.
Though I do respect your opinion Dune and wish I could follow your suggestion, it just isn't feasible.
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She comes home and drinks, right? What if you hide or remove all the liquor from the house, and see how she reacts. It's probably going to be crazy but at least she won't have that alcohol-fueled rage.
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She comes home and drinks, right? What if you hide or remove all the liquor from the house, and see how she reacts. It's probably going to be crazy but at least she won't have that alcohol-fueled rage.
Mmm better idea, don't throw it away. Go buy a small bottle of visine, put ~10 drops in every bottle of liquor you can find. It won't kill her, but I guaranfuckingt ee she wont drink again for at least a week.
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Mmm better idea, don't throw it away. Go buy a small bottle of visine, put ~10 drops in every bottle of liquor you can find. It won't kill her, but I guaranfuckingt ee she wont drink again for at least a week.
. Or better yet, get her in contact with Bone so you can do a kinda scared straight thing and show her how her life will be if she keeps drinking and causing drama. She will be all alone with a turantula in a house where she has to steal electricity from her neighbor.
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She will be all alone with a turantula in a house where she has to steal electricity from her neighbor.
In all honesty I don't doubt this being possible.
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Mmm better idea, don't throw it away. Go buy a small bottle of visine, put ~10 drops in every bottle of liquor you can find. It won't kill her, but I guaranfuckingt ee she wont drink again for at least a week.
Would not want to go near that bathroom at all.
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Mmm better idea, don't throw it away. Go buy a small bottle of visine, put ~10 drops in every bottle of liquor you can find. It won't kill her, but I guaranfuckingt ee she wont drink again for at least a week.
Or don't, since that could potentially kill her.
http://www.snopes.com/medical/myths/visine.asp
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I'm just curious what she wants, or why she thinks she's so special, or even what she thinks she would have without you guys. At least she works though. How old is your younger sister? I feel she is the most in danger here.
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I'm just curious what she wants, or why she thinks she's so special, or even what she thinks she would have without you guys. At least she works though. How old is your younger sister? I feel she is the most in danger here.
What she wants in sympathy even though she was the unfaithful one, NOT my father.
My younger sister is 17, but she will be a legal adult in November. I.E. exempt from any possible custody charges by my mom, which she has indeed threatened. Stupid cunt.
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My younger sister is 17, but she will be a legal adult in November.
. I expect a picture then!
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Tried to have a calm, peaceful dinner at Applebees with my dad like we do every Friday but no. She decided that she was going to pound more natties than a lax bro in college, then call my dad, I SHIT YOU NOT, 22 times and 12 texts in the span of an hour.
Her threats from just tonight included but were not limited to: taking custody of my sister, repossessing my car, my dad's car, and my sister's car (all of which are in my dad's name and NOT hers), and threatening him with "Bad Carma who will shit on you and your boyfriend you bring back home".
Drunk bitch ruined half price appetizers.
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Tried to have a calm, peaceful dinner at Applebees with my dad like we do every Friday but no. She decided that she was going to pound more natties than a lax bro in college, then call my dad, I SHIT YOU NOT, 22 times and 12 texts in the span of an hour.
Her threats from just tonight included but were not limited to: taking custody of my sister, repossessing my car, my dad's car, and my sister's car (all of which are in my dad's name and NOT hers), and threatening him with "Bad Carma who will shit on you and your boyfriend you bring back home".
Drunk bitch ruined half price appetizers.
Do you remember any good times with her? Does she have any friends maybe at work? Maybe you should show up at her work and talk to her then since she is sober then. She is obviously bored and has nothing else to do but bother you guys; she's probably disappointed with her life and feels worthless so she acts out.
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Do you remember any good times with her? Does she have any friends maybe at work? Maybe you should show up at her work and talk to her then since she is sober then. She is obviously bored and has nothing else to do but bother you guys; she's probably disappointed with her life and feels worthless so she acts out.
I just don't give a fuck anymore. She has treated all 4 of us like shit for a year now. She can just go fuck herself.
I only wish my dad would block her number like the rest of us have.
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Oh hey what's that? Oh right, it's the police called for breaking and entering.
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Bitch woke me up at 8:30 today, knowing damn well that my dad wasn't there for her to talk to, then lets herself in after knocking for 5 minutes. She went straight to my younger sister's room to talk to her, but that shit was not about to happen. I called my mom back up to the kitchen, told her to leave, she refused, I called the police. Dad came rushing back from his trip up north. Luckily he had only left a few hours before so he wasn't far. No charges pressed because it would be too damn difficult with court dates.
Bitch.
(Also you can't rustle my jimmies Hell.)
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Have you tried Misfit's middle aged hag stud service? I hear it helps with the stress of menopause!
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Or don't, since that could potentially kill her.
http://www.snopes.com/medical/myths/visine.asp
I didn't say to use the whole bottle. Ironic since alcohol is already poison lol.
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So god damned happy. My mother has been barred from coming to the wedding.
My older sister sounded like she was going to strangle my mother through her phone when I called to tell her about the incident.
:imbecile
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I hope that is a bad pic, because your mom looks like she has arms that could lift a truck.
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I hope that is a bad pic, because your mom looks like she has arms that could lift a truck.
When I mspainted the picture, I noticed that when I zoomed in lol.
She has big arms, but she is just heavy set. It's all fat. I had to tell that to the police when I called.
By the way, this was the first time I had spoken to my mother in person in over 2 months.
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Well from my perspective. You sound like an arrogant, hatefull young man and I would be lighty supprised if you didn't cause the whole breakup yourself. And what is this????? Do you want us to pat you on the back for being a devil son and breaking up your family? Let me get this straight, you called the police on your own mom! What the hell is going on in your head it sounds like your dad is Charles Manson?
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Well from my perspective. You sound like an arrogant, hatefull young man and I would be lighty supprised if you didn't cause the whole breakup yourself. And what is this????? Do you want us to pat you on the back for being a devil son and breaking up your family? Let me get this straight, you called the police on your own mom! What the hell is going on in your head it sounds like your dad is Charles Manson?
You don't appear to have read at all Dune. First line of my post says this is just a vent for myself. I don't give a damn what you specifically think, but I know for a fact my mom has treated my sister's like shit, so don't you even try to convince me otherwise.
I had no intention of telling any of you this, but I am so god damned pissed tonight that I need somewhere to vent to. Living with MG couldn't have been this bad. I do feel much better after typing this though.
... my mom lived alone with my little sister. My mother didn't cook a single god damned meal for my sister, didn't clean up the house for shit, shouted drunkenly almost every mother fucking night at my sister, and made my sister cry so many god damned times that I have wanted to smack my mom's fat face into the wall on several occasions.
I returned to find my mom yelling at my sister because my mom thought my sister had called my dad to tell him what happened. I flipped my shit. I shouted at my mom for a good half hour until she shut the fuck up. Every one left to their own room and didn't talk to each other for a good 3 days. After that it was the usual walking on eggshells until Christmas when we had another awkward session without drama.
Now I haven't spoken to my mom in 2 months, but that hasn't stopped her from sending me drunken texts every night. My mom continues to be passive aggressive, or threaten to use legal bullshit (that doesn't exist) to get custody of my younger sister, or guilt trip us, or fucking spy on us.
Her latest guilt trip involved her father's recent death 2 weeks ago. When he died, we all wanted to attend his funeral, but my mom would not give us a straight answer. It was Tuesday, no it was moved to Friday, now it was actually on Wednesday. Because of this, only she had gone to the funeral. She then called my dad and tried to guilt trip him by telling him that if my sisters or I had shown up, then we would have been entitled to a $100,000 inheritance, EACH. Now this is total bullshit because we all knew my grandfather was in a shitton of debt and his farm wasn't worth shit anymore. One of my cousins was there who would have been entitled to the same inheritance, yet she had not recived anything, confirming our suspicion of my mom bullshitting us.
SO that is what I have been dealing with for the past year or so.
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He has also told us about this on ventrilo and you can hear/feel the frustration in his voice. Whether you agree with his actions is a choice you're making...
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I tried to talk to my mom on the phone today. I made it 2 minutes before she started to paint herself as the victim. I just hung up on her mid sentence; she was a bit pissed at that.
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I tried to talk to my mom on the phone today. I made it 2 minutes before she started to paint herself as the victim. I just hung up on her mid sentence; she was a bit pissed at that.
How do you know she was pissed if the conversation was over? ;)
I stopped talking to my mother years ago. It's something when you get older, look back and realize the way you grew up wasn't as normal as you thought. All I can say, make sure you break the cycle now, just don't let it go any farther then it has, learn from your life and make your children's life much batter then yours... You owe that to them.
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How do you know she was pissed if the conversation was over? ;)
Because she called my dad seconds later, and she did not have a happy or sad tone; I heard her yelling.
Also the only reason I am "trying" to patch things up is just for my sister's sake for her wedding in 3 weeks. After that all bets are off.
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Sorry for your troubles...
Fuck, my life rocks!
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Why make peace for your sister's wedding! Your mom has been banned just like anyone who goes against Beatle on these forums does! Fuck you Beatle!
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Anyone know how to block texts from a number? I can block calls, but I can't figure out how to block texts. The option to blacklist a number apparently doesn't block texts, only calls.
I have been getting aggressive/insulting texts from my mother for the past 8 hours. 27 total. Ranging from petty insults to trying to get me to hate my father based on a blatant lie. I haven't sent a single text/called her since the wedding.
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Sounds like there is only one option... Killing her. You know where to find me... Behind Balth's house.
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App store...
"Mr Number call and text"
EDIT... I did the above from my phone, correction on the name of the app and its free by the way "Mr. Number Text, Call & Block" PC web site if you want to check it out https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mrnumber.blocker&hl=en
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Anyone know how to block texts from a number? I can block calls, but I can't figure out how to block texts. The option to blacklist a number apparently doesn't block texts, only calls.
I have been getting aggressive/insulting texts from my mother for the past 8 hours. 27 total. Ranging from petty insults to trying to get me to hate my father based on a blatant lie. I haven't sent a single text/called her since the wedding.
(http://digitalmarketinggirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/stay_classy.jpg?w=470)
I know I can block texts if people aren't in my contact list, by not blocking all texts that aren't in from someone in my contacts list, but otherwise if they are in my contacts list then I can't individually block texts from someone.
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Spam her number on 4chan.
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Anyone know how to block texts from a number? I can block calls, but I can't figure out how to block texts. The option to blacklist a number apparently doesn't block texts, only calls.
Did you figure it out? When you block a number, texts should be blocked as well. Call the phone company and ask.
(moved to flame btw)
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Got an app that blocks texts from any number or any unknown (not in contacts) number until I allow it.
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Got an app that blocks texts from any number or any unknown (not in contacts) number until I allow it.
. What's the name of the app? Plus, post a pic of your mom and sister!!!
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. What's the name of the app? Plus, post a pic of your mom and sister!!!
SmsBlocker. And we both know you've stalked my Facebook enough to have a picture for yourself already.
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Meesters moms so fat she got a peg leg with a kickstand!